How to Seduce a Man

How To Seduce a Man

How To Seduce a Man

The best way to find, and maintain a relationship with a man is to first understand how he operates, what turns him on, and how to keep him interested. Once you understand these key points you will unlock the secrets of seducing a man and making him fall in love with you. The first thing to do is to get inside his mind, and determine his inner workings. Once you truly understand how he works, everything else will fall into place.

Finding out how he works is done through communication. Just like other areas of your life, this is the key to your relationship success. Invest the time in figuring out what he wants out of life and his relationships. You can then see how you fit in to his dreams, and if your futures look similar enough, you can do things to match his goals.

Understand that you will need to be patient when trying to get a man to fall for you. Take your time in getting to know him so that he knows you like him for who he truly is.

Be feminine and show him that you think he is special. Show him that you care, and that you know how to treat someone special.

Before you get started with anything in the dating realm, decide what it is that you want – and don’t want – in a man and a relationship. If you do this, you won’t be spinning your wheels and wasting energy.

Attract a Man With Your Emotional Intelligence

Attracting a Man

Attracting a Man

How do you react when a date doesn’t go as planned? This is directed by your own emotional intelligence (also called “EI” for short). Not to be confused with IQ (your intelligence quotient that you are born with), EI can be developed as you mature.

EI, in its simplest form, is the ability for a person to decipher their own emotions, and understand the emotions of others. If a person has high EI, they are able to use their emotions to process complex thoughts, enhance perception, express themselves more maturely, and more effectively manage themselves and others.

EI is the ability to maintain accurate awareness of your self. EI is also the ability to maintain a keen awareness of other people’s verbal and non-verbal thoughts and feelings.

Emotions are often realized through changes in expressed energy. By noticing these changes in yourself and others you will raise your overall awareness and EI.
People with high EI are able to look at a situation from the other person’s point of view. Dealing with a situation when you can see how the other person is feeling helps you handle issues like a mature adult.

Why is this important to your success when dating? Here’s an example:

The man who asked you out on a date is late meeting you. Although he is usually very punctual, this time he is nearly 45 minutes late. A woman with low EI would be angry and make a big fuss, requiring an explanation from his date that of course, will never be adequate. The date won’t go well because she is still stewing and making it an unpleasant time for the both of them.

A woman with high EI will be able to understand that sometimes tardiness is unavoidable, and she will know that he feels terrible for being late. She will let him know its okay, and that she is sure that he feels bad about making her wait. She’ll accept his reason, especially because he is usually on time, and move on to enjoy the date.
For a mature and effective relationship, it is important that both people have high EI’s. This will ensure that they have mutual respect for each other, and that both people feel secure in the relationship.

The best way to use EI to your advantage is to tune into her verbal and non-verbal cues on your date. Do some homework before your date by watching your own non-verbal cues. Look at your natural tendencies in interacting with your family, colleagues, or friends. Try asking for feedback from people that will be honest with you. EI is the key to a satisfying, mature, and successful relationship. Investing some time in improving your own EI is well worth it.

How To Tell He Is Attracted To You

Is He The One

Is He The One?

Being able to tell when a man is interested in you is an important skill to have if you want to save yourself the trouble of trying to go after men that simply wish you would leave them alone.

The ability to read body language can be extremely beneficial; in fact I’d almost say it’s essential if you want to be successful in life, whether that is with men or in your career or just with your friends.
To truly know and understand someone’s body language, it can be very helpful to know your subject, as some body language can be confused with “comfort”.

Reading body language can also be very beneficial for reducing anxiety around men. If you know what she is feeling, then you know what to expect and where to go next, Instead of trying to second guess from just her verbal language.

We all know that men are great at saying one thing, but often meaning another. So if you can master the skill of body language, then you can be one step ahead. And place yourself at ease.

Eye Contact

Ok, so you’re out at a club, there is a hot guy a table or two away from you. He looks over and makes eye contact with you. Does this eye contact last a little longer then as it would with someone you merely glance across at, let’s say in a shopping mall?

Does he go back for round two? Make eye contact with you again? Holding it a little longer again? Yes?

Now unless you look silly, he is attracted to you! Now it’s time for the next step (get him to approach you).

His Posture

I have to admit I do watch for this one a fair bit in others. Its interesting watching this happen in complete strangers you don’t know. We’re all guilty of it, what’s funny though, is since I know this is something that we all do from time to time, I’ll even consciously realize it, yet can’t stop myself from doing it.

Here is an example:

Say you’re strolling down the heart of the city, with little concern for your posture, your shoulders are relaxed, head semi downwards and you are just in your own little world getting on with your day.

Suddenly a handsome man is walking your way, what do you do? You probably stand up straight, and try to look your best as the guy passes, right?

Both women and men use this attraction signal, usually done subconsciously. (As most body language we use is)

Playing with and touching of hair, clothes, etc.

An example of this:

You’re at work and its just hit midday so you’re heading to the lunch room to heat up last nights left over spaghetti bolognaise at the office, which is very convenient and there is a free to use microwave.

When you enter the lunch room, the attractive man you have a bit of an eye for looks up and runs his hand through his tie, re-adjusting it.

This can be a great indication that he is attracted to you.

However, there are some men that play with their hair as a “comfort” device.

So it is important to know your subject to know whether this is just a “habit”.